D I.Y Sex Toys: Self-Love Edition
Its unsuspecting small shape keeps things on the DL, but don’t let the small size fool you. Not really one for a showy sex toy shaped like a rose or penguin or otherwise? Keep things simple with this minimalist suction toy that offers up to five different patterns and five different intensity levels. Given the rising popularity of suction sex toys, you’ve got a ton of choices (from some of the best places to buy sex toys).
These vibrators’ small size is actually their biggest benefit, as they are some of the most discreet sex toys—and travel-friendly too, as they’re easy to slip into a clutch, purse, or even be worn as jewelry (really!). You can always keep one close to you when on the go, just in case the mood strikes when you least expect it, and their unassuming shape and lower price point make them excellent vibrators for beginners. This quiet bullet vibrator features rabbit ears that can create a range of sensations against your clitoris. “You can let the ears graze and flutter against your body for lighter sensation, use the two ears to surround sensitive tissue, or put the toy’s body directly on your hot spots to enjoy the deep and penetrating rumble,” says Finn.
Plus, it could also provide that hands-free me-time experience I so craved. If you’d rather be free of cords, however, the Hitachi rechargeable or Le Wand is for you. Both can go for three hours at a full charge, which also takes three hours to complete.
If you’re on the hunt for a sexy toy that serves as a body massager and powerful sex toy, this VUSH wand will deliver on both fronts. It has five varying levels and 10 optimised vibration patterns to explore plus, it features an ergonomic body so you can wiggle viberators , pump and slide it around for up to two hours. Unlike a lot of other wands this one is waterproof, which means you can take it into the bathtub for ultra-wet sessions — alone or in partnered sex. Made from smooth, squishy, body-safe silicone, it offers five suction intensities and five vibration patterns to suit your preference.
Wrap your fingers around it, and send vibrations coursing through you and your partner. “Adding anything that can enhance your communication with your partner is helpful and can also improve intimacy. When we talk about what feels good, how to better please and try new things, we bond,” Wright says. When you’re in the mood for a vibration-less good time, consider a dildo, which will mimic an erect penis. This one is a reasonable size in length and girth, and it has a suction at the bottom that allows you to switch things up and bounce your way to orgasm. This mainstay of the sex toy world is still just as popular and effective as when it first launched back in the ’60s — and now it’s cordless. What material your vibrator is made out of affects how it physically feels, what kind of lube you can use with it, and how to clean it.